Excerpt from "The Secret" You can completely transform any relationship, no matter what it’s like right now. Every single relationship you have is a reflection of how you feel inside about you. You are a magnet attracting to you all things, via the signal you are emitting through your thoughts and feelings. Every relationship you have and every interaction with every person, is a reflection of your own thoughts and feelings in that very moment. To transform every single relationship you have in your life: • Fall in love with You! (You must love yourself deeply). • Make lists of hundreds and hundreds of wonderful things about you. Keep adding to it every day. • Know that you are perfect. (Do not think any negative thoughts about you). • Know that you are worth and deserving of anything and everything you could possibly want in your life. • Focus on the wonderful things in every person. Look for only those things. • Do not blame or criticize anybody, ever. • Set an intention that you are going to see the best in everything and everyone. • Make your happiness the number one thing in your life. (Happiness is an inside job). • Free yourself of the responsibility of trying to make other people happy (respect and love them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness). • Get your attention off those things in others that don’t make you feel good. • Appreciate and love yourself in every moment you can. • Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. • Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing. • Love and respect yourself completely. • Know that you are PERFECT right now.