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Ponderings...

What are you paying attention to?
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Glenda Gibbs ∙ Changing Perceptions ∙ 8514 W Gage Blvd. Ste. C18 Kennewick WA 99336∙ Office: 509.585.9683

    Moving along on the highway of life we notice how easy it is to look into the rear view mirror. At   times those
    events behind us seem to be more important than what’s going on in front of us – eeek! a car wreck in the
    making!

    Some are asleep at the wheel – oblivious to the road signs of life. Whether it’s “stop” “caution” or “slow down”
    they keep forging their way down the road shaking their fists or making gestures when someone makes them
    mad.

    Generally it takes a “crash” for most of us to admit a change of view is the only way things are going to improve.

    The highway ahead might seem a bit exciting, maybe even a bit scary. If we’re not paying close attention and
    staying present to what’s going on right now, our minds slip into autopilot looking at the rear view mirror – with
    another ‘accident’ waiting to happen.

    Another hijacking occurs when we say to ourselves, “I should have known better” – we blame and judge
    ourselves. Its one thing when the ‘cops’ point out our errors (that’s their jobs) however when   we listen to
    that inner ‘cop’ berating our self, using today’s knowledge against yesterday’s choices,   it becomes
    emotional blackmail.

    The only way to see beyond this spiral of self-destruction is to accept the decision made then was the best
    decision under those circumstances. We didn’t know then what we now know. Today is a new day with new
    information.

    How do you live your life? Are you ‘waiting for an accident to happen’? Or are you paying attention to the road
    signs and continuing to move forward?

    Smiles to you!
    Glenda